Although Matt would be the first to tell you that he was
nothing without Christ, he was quite a remarkable man
with Christ. He left a lasting impact on
the lives of possibly hundreds of people. And he left a
legacy for others to follow in his footsteps.
Read some of the notes of encouragement and thanks written
to Matt in the last year of his life—here in excerpts from
the Caringbridge guestbook
You can view a video of Matt's memorial service
here.
And below is a tribute written about him for the memorial
service after his death. It is just a snapshot of a man who
was treasured by more people than we can count.
Unforgettable
We don't really need a memorial service to remember Matt.
He is, and always will be, unforgettable. His bounding
stride and boundless wisdom. His smile, laughter, and
love... all dished out in limitless amounts—just like the
way he would fill a plate at the Chinese buffet. His
legendary stories will stay with us. As well as his antics.
And of course his joy. These things defined him. These and
thousands more: The very-red sports-car. The collection of
rubberized puke and other unmentionable pranks. His love
for food and beach-front sunsets. The way he treasured
Carina. The way he treasured our children. In our memories
Matt is a comforting arm over our shoulder or a loving slap
on the back. He's the face of one who was there on our best
and worst day. One who never let go. He's the face of a
shepherd forever in search of a single lost sheep. He's a
hand stretched out to rescue, and feet made beautiful as
they bring the Good News. Matt’s unconventional ways
sometimes raised eyebrows, but they also opened doors. His
unconditional love for young people made him a magnet for
those who thought themselves worthless. His understanding
made him an ambassador for their worth. Matt had more deep
and meaningful relationships than seems reasonable for one
man. He crammed more hours into a day than seems possible.
His life on earth was fuller than a mere sixty-six years.
Each of us will remember him for some of the lighthearted
and heartwarming things that made Matt who he was. But some
of us will remember him for far more—for some special time
when he turned our life around. Or for the day he spoke
courage to our heart. He once wrote to me saying that he
liked to think of himself as an encourager; "because at its
center," he said, "is found the word courage." We will not
see Matt on this earth anymore. But neither will we be able
to forget him. And as we laugh or offer up thanks at the
random memories when they come, he would wish for us to be
encouraged—to take courage. And perhaps, if we can, go
after some of those lost sheep he didn't have enough time
to reach—the ones who could rightly be called forgotten,
but to Matt were unforgettable.
–Michael Delorenzo / August 28, 2008